{"id":4331,"date":"2013-10-25T13:08:47","date_gmt":"2013-10-25T13:08:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lavisqteam.fr\/?p=4331"},"modified":"2013-10-25T13:08:47","modified_gmt":"2013-10-25T13:08:47","slug":"lhomme-qui-a-oublie-sa-femme-john-ofarrell","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavisqteam.fr\/?p=4331","title":{"rendered":"L’Homme qui a Oubli\u00e9 sa Femme – John O’Farrell"},"content":{"rendered":"

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R\u00e9sum\u00e9 :<\/b><\/p>\n

Beaucoup de maris oublient des trucs. Ils oublient que leur femme avait un rendez-vous important ce jour-l\u00e0. Ils oublient de r\u00e9cup\u00e9rer les v\u00eatements au pressing et ne pensent \u00e0 acheter un cadeau pour l\u2019anniversaire de leur mariage que la veille du jour J. Cela rend dingue les compagnes. Que les hommes soient centr\u00e9s sur eux-m\u00eames au point de n\u00e9gliger un \u00e9v\u00e9nement majeur dans la vie de leur moiti\u00e9 ou une date cl\u00e9 dans l\u2019historique de leur couple, \u00e7a les rend dingue. Lui, n\u2019\u00e9tait pas victime d\u2019\u00e9tourderie n\u00e9gligente. Il avait juste oubli\u00e9 qui \u00e9tait sa femme. Son nom, son visage, leur histoire, tout ce qu\u2019elle avait dit, tout ce qu\u2019il lui avait dit \u2013 tout avait \u00e9t\u00e9 balay\u00e9, jusqu\u2019\u00e0 l\u2019id\u00e9e m\u00eame de son existence.<\/p>\n

Lors de son hospitalisation, son compagnon de chambre, Bernard, brandit le livre qu\u2019il a achet\u00e9 \u00e0 son intention\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Un pr\u00e9nom pour B\u00e9b\u00e9\u00a0\u00bb. Durant plusieurs heures avec beaucoup d\u2019enthousiasme, Bernard \u00e9grenait chaque nom\u2026soudain lorsqu\u2019il a prononc\u00e9 Gary<\/b>, il s\u2019est mis \u00e0 murmurer \u00ab\u00a007700\u2026900..913\u00a0\u00bb et \u00e0 partir de l\u00e0, la vie de Vaughan allait pouvoir reprendre le fil gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 son ami.<\/p>\n

Avis\u00a0:<\/b><\/p>\n

Le r\u00e9sum\u00e9 me paraissait bien sympathique et je pensais me prendre quelques fous rires. Ou en tout cas apprendre des choses sur l\u2019amn\u00e9sie vu que c\u2019est quand m\u00eame le sujet central du livre. Grosse d\u00e9ception, j\u2019ai m\u00eame mis le bouquin de c\u00f4t\u00e9 en me demandant si j\u2019allais le finir, ou pas, mais comme je n\u2019aime pas rester sans savoir (typiquement f\u00e9minin, non ?), je l\u2019ai lu p\u00e9niblement jusqu\u2019au bout.<\/p>\n

Alors oui il y a des sc\u00e8nes assez comiques en relation avec les probl\u00e8mes de couple et dans ce cas-ci le divorce, qui est particulier puisque Vaughan ne se souvient m\u00eame pas qu\u2019il est mari\u00e9 ni p\u00e8re de deux enfants. Quelle catastrophe\u2026et j\u2019aurais aim\u00e9 que l\u2019auteur s\u2019int\u00e9resse plus \u00e0 \u00e7a, avec moins de l\u00e9g\u00e8ret\u00e9, on dirait que John O\u2019Farrell<\/i> prend vraiment ce sujet \u00e0 la l\u00e9g\u00e8re comme si ce n\u2019\u00e9tait qu\u2019un d\u00e9tail. Un pr\u00e9texte pour d\u00e9buter son histoire car Vaughan devient amn\u00e9sique comme \u00e7a, sans explications.<\/p>\n

Je vais peut-\u00eatre m\u2019attirer les foudres mais on dirait m\u00eame que c\u2019est un \u00e9crivain non accompli et pourtant c\u2019est son dixi\u00e8me roman (fictions et non fictions confondus).<\/p>\n

Un extrait du livre aurait suffit au livre, le reste est du blabla, le voici\u00a0:\u00a0\u00ab\u00a0Un mari se s\u00e9pare de sa femme, il est victime d\u2019une affection qui provoque une amn\u00e9sie totale, passe une semaine \u00e0 l\u2019h\u00f4pital, sans savoir qui il est, puis, lorsqu\u2019il revoit sa femme, c\u2019est comme s\u2019il rencontrait une \u00e9trang\u00e8re pour la toute premi\u00e8re fois. Il tombe amoureux d\u2019elle, parvient \u00e0 bluffer le tribunal sur sa v\u00e9ritable situation, change d\u2019avis \u00e0 propos de son divorce et finit par regagner l\u2019amour de sa future ex. Ensuite, au cours de la f\u00eate cens\u00e9e c\u00e9l\u00e9brer leur nouveau d\u00e9part dans la vie, il se souvient d\u2019une ancienne liaison, lui en parle, et elle d\u00e9cide de rompre \u00e0 nouveau.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n

La seule phrase qui ait du sens dans tout le bouquin ou du moins qui pr\u00eate \u00e0 r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir, est celle-ci\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0A vingt ans, on consid\u00e8re avec optimisme tout ce qu\u2019on va accomplir, on empile des projets et des ambitions qu\u2019on r\u00e9alisera plus tard, dans un avenir pas encore tr\u00e8s bien d\u00e9termin\u00e9. Lorsqu\u2019on\u00a0 atteint la trentaine, on est tellement assomm\u00e9 par la d\u00e9flagration que constituent l\u2019arriv\u00e9e des b\u00e9b\u00e9s, les d\u00e9m\u00e9nagements et les heures de boulot qu\u2018on encha\u00eene pour pouvoir payer tout \u00e7a qu\u2019on a m\u00eame pas une minute pour lever le nez du guidon et regarder o\u00f9 on va. Ce n\u2019est qu\u2019\u00e0 la quarantaine qu\u2019on trouve le temps de reprendre son souffle, de tirer le bilan et de r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir \u00e0 ce que l\u2019on a fait jusque-l\u00e0. Et subitement, on se rend compte qu\u2019on est loin de ce qu\u2019on esp\u00e9rait, d\u2019autant qu\u2019on pensait paresseusement que \u00e7a viendrait tout seul.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n

Vous l\u2019aurez compris je ne vous conseille vraiment pas ce livre.<\/p>\n

Note\u00a0: 06\/20<\/b><\/p>\n

Par Erin<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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